When I was 12 years old, I had an epiphany. I knew I wanted to raise a daughter, just like momma was raising me. That 12 year old me knew it in her bones. It was so clearly obvious to her that one day she was going to be a mother to a daughter. Boys were very silly, so why marry? I was going to adopt! I told momma and she was so proud of me. [Read More]

A little pumpkin is on her way! 🥳 And I am embarking on a new journey in life! Making this decision to have a baby, to intentionally bring a human into this world and then to take up everything that comes with raising a child, did not seem as straightforward to me. I was constantly seeking a decision making framework. There’s no denying that there exists a natural biological instinct but the analyst in me just wouldn’t let nature take over. [Read More]